Do we just get centered on ourselves and how we are treated?
I'm going to try and center on true love or charity and forget "self". I think too much of self sometimes.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (King James Bible)
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth: